January 2006
25 ladies joined together for the ladies
breakfast on Saturday 7th January, very ably served by Tom, Basil, David,
Peter and Derek.
We were challenged by Jane Loades, the
district Evangelist, as to why churches hold coffee mornings and what
perception those who attend have of the Church as a result of coming
along.
The question she posed (see below) could be
addressed to many of our church activities. We might not have agreed with
everything Jane said but she certainly made us think.
It is a lovely way of starting a weekend
(having breakfast cooked and presented by the men folk) and gives us a
chance to chat and meet new people.
Coffee Mornings - The Ultimate
Challenge
Questions
to ask of the church that holds a Coffee Morning:
Why
do you have a coffee morning?
Who
will welcome people when they come and who will make the coffee?
Will
you use Fair Trade products?
Do
you see the coffee morning as a mission opportunity?
How
can we meet the needs of the people who come?
Questions
asked by those attending a coffee morning:
How
do I access the Coffee Morning?
Where
is the door?
Where
is the coffee?
Where
can I sit when all seats seem to be occupied?
Some
people are eating, where did they get the food?
Is
there anyone who will help, before I ask?
I
want to know more about the church, who will talk to me?
Unspoken
questions and comments - the challenge?
Did
the sign outside really mean that anyone could come in?
Help
I feel trapped, too many people are talking to me
No-one
is talking to me
These
people are really interested in me.
I
want to ask the questions I'm longing to have answered
God
is good and Christians are OK
January 2005
The Rev Graham Thompson, Chairman of the
East Anglian District, read from Paul's letter to the Philippians chapter
1; regarding Christian qualities that we desire for others, because we are
all in partnership - with God and with our Christian brothers and sisters.
Graham then took us back to his recent
history (1999) when ideas began to surface regarding a nomination for him
to become Chair of District. Graham considered that he did not have the
qualities required to become a chair. However the ideas came from three
directions, so he reluctantly allowed his name to go forward.
Graham spoke of a very difficult period
with feelings of sadness, disappointment and joy, as his name was not
accepted on two occasions, but agreed on the third (2001), and so he
became a shadow to Malcolm Brady.
Graham considered that his period of
nomination, rejection and finally acceptance might be an experience for
all. In trying to discern God's desire, there is the need to throw
yourself at God's mercy - a partnership with God.
At present Graham is responsible for 23
Methodist circuits throughout Norfolk, Suffolk and part of Cambridgeshire.
Each Sunday he goes to a different circuit to lead worship. Graham is a
pastor to pastors; as such he responds to the needs of the flock by
visiting. There are ecumenical responsibilities; also he represents the
East Anglia District to the Connexion (therefore many committees). Graham
is responsible for the stationing and placement of ministers, for
resources regarding training and for the life of the church. His is a
ministry requiring partnership that brings joys and disappointment (we all
need to learn forgiveness - to turn the other cheek).
Regarding the future, Graham noted the view
of a declining church. However also noting that "we are still
here." If we are faithful, God is faithful. Graham reported on signs
of hope across the district, new buildings and projects, youth work within
Hethersett being a beacon within the district.
Graham concluded that:
July 2003
Mrs Pam Walton spoke about her life in Zimbabwe. She now
lives in Salhouse, but the African country still has a place in her heart.
We saw a short video of the mighty Victoria Falls and then
she spoke of her adventurous ride on a white water raft down the Zambezi
river.
She reminded us that this trip was very much like our
Christian journey - times of peaceful tranquility when everything is going
well, and then bursts of absolute panic and fear, when we wonder just what
has gone wrong and where is God in all that is happening to us? At times
like these we need to put all our trust in Him and we will be helped and
guided and led to another peaceful and restful
time.
She also mentioned the political situation in this wonderful country and
urged us all to pray for the people and especially for President Mugabe, that he
would see the need to hand over the rule of the country to others.
We had a display of Zimbabwean crafts provided by Pam and Sheila. Time passed
only too quickly but everyone unanimously joined Jean as she gave the vote of
thanks and then led the group in a prayer for Zimbabwe and its people.